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Behind the Smile: Challenging Conversation at Work to Improve Your English

This 6 minutes English lesson offers a good mix of vocabulary, from sophisticated and less common to figurative language and humor. It can be helpful for English learners to understand every nuance of meaning in the spoken English. A conversation scene from "The White Lotus" (s01e01) is used.

In today's lesson:

  • "like you mean it". - Why does he say that?
  • "self-disclosure is discouraged". - What does it mean?
  • "vagueness". - What do you think this word means? 
Today, we learn English with Armond, the chill hotel boss, and Lani, a new employee who is very nervous on her first day at work. They are waiting for guests. Lani is pregnant and stressed about the job, but Armond is all cool and collected. Let's watch and learn!

"big smiles" is a common collocation used to describe happy people, who are smiling very widely, showing happiness or excitement.

"you mean it?" is a common English expression used to show surprise or disbelief. Imagine someone tells you they won a million dollars. You might say, "You mean it? That's incredible!". 
In the clip, it don't used directly. Armond says, "Wave like you mean it, Lani." This means she should demonstrate her reaction to the guests' arrival as surprise and great pleasure.

"self-disclosure" means telling other people about your personal life, your feelings, or your secrets. It's like sharing your inside thoughts and experiences with someone else.

"discouraged" means you don't want people to do something. It's like telling someone, "Don't do that!"

Putting it together: "self-disclosure is discouraged". This means that you should not share personal information about yourself. The people here don't want you to tell them about your life or your problems. They want you to be like a friendly robot who helps people but doesn't have a personal life.

"specific" means exact or particular. It's like saying something clearly and directly, without being general. For example, instead of saying "I like fruit", you say "I like apples". That's being specific.

"presence" means the fact that someone is in a place, here, a quality that makes people notice you.

"identity" means a person's name and other facts about who they are.

"ethos" means the set of beliefs, ideas, etc. about the social behaviour and relationships of a person or group.

"interchangeable" means able to be exchanged with each other without making any difference or without being noticed.

"kabuki" means a type of Japanese theatre that uses only male actors, who perform in a traditional and artificial manner.

"overall" means "in general" or "considering everything". It's like looking at a whole picture instead of just one small part.

"impression" is like a picture you make in someone's mind. It's how they think about you or something.

"vagueness" means the quality of not being clear in shape, or not clearly seen. It's like trying to see something through a foggy window. You can kind of see it, but it's not very clear.

Putting it together: "overall impression of vagueness". This means that people should not know too much about you. Armond wants people to think Lani is nice and helpful, but he doesn't want them to know too many details about her.

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